No amount of guilt can change the past, and no amount of worrying can change the future. Go easy on yourself, for the outcome of all affairs is determined by Allah's decree. If something is meant to go elsewhere, it will never come your way, but if it is yours by destiny, from it you cannot flee.
Then... What is the purpose of dua? I no longer know what to ask in dua apart from Maghfirah and help in ibadah. I do not know whether i should ask for anything else. Because i do not know whether its fair or one should have worldly desires.
ReplyDeleteJazak Allah,
ReplyDeleteApa! your blog is really very knowledgeable and thought provoking.
I have several issues in my routine life that I need to get advised about. But I do not found any person who for the sake of Allah Pak shows me the right way.
Can I get in touch with you on this blog or through my personal email id for guidance?
May Allah Pak always bless you with health ameen
@ I have several issues in my routine life
ReplyDeleteHOW about a solution from Allah(Subhan O Tallah) of all your issues: "FEAR Allah". And KNOW that It is bound to work as prescribed from Allah Rabeel Alameen,
..AND WHOSOEVER "FEARS" ALLAH AND KEEPS HIS DUTY TO HIM, HE WILL MAKE A "***WAY FOR HIM TO GET OUT (FROM EVERY DIFFICULTY)***".
AND HE WILL *PROVIDE* HIM FROM (SOURCES) HE NEVER COULD IMAGINE. AND WHOSOEVER PUTS HIS TRUST IN ALLAH, THEN HE WILL "*SUFFICE *" HIM. Verily, Allah will accomplish his purpose. Indeed Allah has set a measure for all things.
(At-Talaq 65: 2-3)
Yesterday is history
ReplyDeleteTomorrow is a Mystery
Today is a gift
So use it to get closer to Allah
@ I need to get advised
ReplyDelete@ Yesterday is history :)
@ No amount of guilt
Well, there need not be **Any amount of Guilt"** ! It is part of our believe in QADAR And DEEP understanding that it is always GOOD for the BELIEVER no matter what come your way!
The Prophet (peace be upon him) also said“WONDERFUL ARE THE AFFAIRS OF A BELIEVER; for there is good in every affair of his; this is not the case with anyone else except a believer. If he has an occasion to feel delight, he thanks (Allah), thus there is good for him in it. If he suffers affliction, HE ENDURES PATIENTLY, WHICH IS GOOD FOR HIM. [Reported by Imam Muslim]
Prophet(SAW) said:
“No slave of Allah will truly believe until he believes in al-Qadr its good and evil, and until he realizes that what has befallen him was not going to miss him and that which missed him was not going to befall him.“ [Sahih at-Tirmidhi]
Resignation to the Will of God is the cure of the disease of the heart...
ReplyDeleteOur affairs are attached to the
destiny decreed by Allah(swt), even our best plans may lead us to destruction.
@ Then... What is the purpose of dua?
ReplyDelete@ Tomorrow is a Mystery...isn't it ?
@ no amount of worrying can change the future.
Rather Always HAVE GOOD HOPE from Allah, no matter What Comes! NEVER EXPECT BAD from Allah.
In a Hadith Qudsi, Allah says: "I AM AS MY SLAVE ASSUMES I AM".
"Who created me, and He [it is who] guides me.
And it is He who feeds me and gives me drink.
And when I am ill, it is He who cures me.
And Who will cause me to die, and then will bring me to life (again);
And Who I ""HOPE"" that He will forgive me my sin on the Day of Recompense.
My Lord, grant me authority and join me with the righteous.
And grant me a reputation of honor among later generations."
[ Surah Ash-Shu'ara': 78 to 84 ]
This is an example of Prophet Ibrahim (AS) for us to follow. TOTAL AND ULTIMATE RELIANCE ON ALLAH (Subhan O Tallah)
In a Hadith Qudsi, Allah says: "I AM AS MY SLAVE ASSUMES I AM".
By al-Buhkari (also by Muslim, at-Tirmidhi and Ibn-Majah).
I lost my confidence.how could i know that my decisions are right or wrong.i need guidance.
ReplyDeleteYesterday is a dream, and tomorrow is only a vision, but today well lived makes every yesterday a dream of happiness and every tomorrow a vision of hope.I never saw anyone as just as the world. As long as you pursue the world it will pursue you, but when you turn away from it and seek God, it will leave you alone and its glamour shall no longer fascinate you.[Al Hujwiri]
ReplyDelete@ i know that my decisions are right or wrong.i need guidance.
ReplyDeleteFOLLOW THE SUNNAH OF PROPHET, for all your decisions, make "ISTIKHARA". After that whatever decision you make, KNOW THAT IT IS ALWAYS THE "RIGHT DECISION".
Like I said before, Always HAVE GOOD HOPE from Allah, no matter What Comes! NEVER EXPECT BAD from Allah.
In a Hadith Qudsi, Allah says: "I AM AS MY SLAVE ASSUMES I AM".
If you expect Allah to keep you healthy, then you will stay healthy with Allah's permission, Insha Allah. If you expect Allah to provide you, He WILL provide you.
"What muslims Do when life Goes Wrong Nouman Ali Khan " Don't miss it (5 min video)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iBLhMJ8FnTw&feature=related
@ I lost my confidence.
ReplyDeleteInsha Allah, Reciting following ayat will be beneficial in this case: Surah Bani Isra’eel(Isra) verse 80
"And say: MY LORD! CAUSE ME TO COME IN WITH A FIRM INCOMING AND TO GO OUT WITH A FIRM OUTGOING. AND GIVE ME FROM THY PRESENCE A SUSTAINING POWER."
In a Hadith, Prophet(PBUH) mentioned:
"La Hawla Wala Quwwata Illa Billah" is a remedy for 99 diseases, the least of which is sorrow."
May Allah bless you with the needful and make it easy for you in all the affairs of life, Ameen Ya Hayyu Ya Qayyum, Ameen.
Kindly pray for me as well.
SOMEBODY HAS RIGHTLY SAID"HOW BLESSED IS HE WHO CAN CLOSE HIS EYES AND LET THE VAIN PAGEANTS OF LIFE PASS BY!
ReplyDeleteUNTOUCHED BY THE MAGIC OF THIS EARTH,CAN KEEP HIS SOUL AWAKE WHILE THE SENSES SLEEP;
SCORN THE FALSE AND THE FLEETING THAT MEETS THE VIEW,AND SEE WHAT IS HIDDEN,FIRM AND TRUE"....
TRULY THOUGHT PROVOKING.
Narrated 'Abdullah bin 'Amr: A man said to the Prophet, "Shall I participate in Jihad?" The Prophet said, "Are your parents living?" The man said, "Yes." the Prophet said, "Do Jihad for their benefit."
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